Once, Buddha was traveling with his disciples and passed a lake that supplied water to nearby villages. It was a hot day, and Buddha, feeling thirsty, sent one of his disciples to fetch water from the lake. When the disciple arrived, he saw the water was muddy, stirred by a bullock cart that had recently passed through. Finding it unfit for drinking, he returned and suggested moving to the next water source. But to his surprise, Buddha instructed the group to remain there and asked the same disciple to return to the lake after an hour.

Obediently, the disciple went back. The water was still muddy but less so than before. Again, Buddha asked him to wait and try once more in another hour. The third time, the disciple found that the mud had settled, leaving the water clear and drinkable. He brought the water to Buddha, who observed it and said, “How did you solve the challenge of cleaning the muddy water? By doing nothing. You let it be, and with time, the mud settled on its own. The water became clear naturally. Our minds work in exactly the same way. A disturbed mind, like muddy water, will settle on its own if we allow it. The process of calming the mind is not through force but by letting it be.”

This profound teaching illuminates the essence of healing and restoration, which resonates deeply with how the body and mind are designed to function. The body, this miraculous creation, is not something that needs constant fixing. Like the lake, it holds within it the wisdom and capability to heal and restore itself — if only we allow it to.

Healing is not something you do. It is something you allow. Inside you lies a system so intelligent that it knows how to heal, just as a river knows how to flow or a flower knows how to bloom. But for this natural process to take place, the body needs to enter its healing state — a state of relaxation, openness, and receptivity, governed by the parasympathetic nervous system.

Unfortunately, most of us spend our lives in the opposite state — the sympathetic mode. Like the disciple rushing to fetch water from the lake while a bullock cart passes through again and again, our inner waters never get the chance to settle.

Why?

Because, as Yuval Noah Harari, a renowned historian and philosopher, eloquently puts it, there is a growing tension between us — organic beings who thrive on natural cycles — and the inorganic digital systems that are increasingly shaping and controlling the world. Being organic means we are inherently cyclical beings — we live by the rhythms of day and night, the changing of the seasons, the cycles of growth and decay. We thrive when we can move between activity and rest, exertion and relaxation. This balance is not just a preference; it’s a necessity woven into the fabric of life itself.

In contrast, algorithms, AIs, and computers are not organic. They exist outside the natural rhythms that govern us. They never tire, never pause, and never need rest. They are “on” all the time, operating in a perpetual state of activity. And herein lies the crux of the issue: will we, as organic beings, adapt to these inorganic systems, or will they adapt to us? Increasingly, it seems that we are the ones bending to their relentless pace, at great cost to our well-being.

Hence, Buddha’s teaching reminds us of a simple truth: healing happens in stillness. When we allow the body to rest — just as the disciple allowed the muddy water to settle — our parasympathetic nervous system activates. In this state, the body releases chemicals like oxytocin, which foster relaxation, connection, and joy. It’s here, in this peaceful state, that the body’s natural healing powers awaken. Tension dissipates, the mind clears, and the heart finds peace.

To heal, we must shift from survival to rest, from chaos to calm. This does not require effort; it requires surrender. Awareness is the doorway to this shift. The more we notice the tension in our bodies and the stress in our minds, the easier it becomes to let go. It is like watching a storm pass or clouds drift away, revealing the blue sky that was always there.

Healing, like the settling of the muddy water, is not about striving. It is about trusting the body’s innate wisdom. When you stop trying to control or fix everything, the body naturally returns to balance. Old wounds, trauma, and shame are not erased — they dissolve in the presence of peace. The fog lifts, and you remember your wholeness.

So, just as the disciple learned from the muddy lake, we too must learn to let go. To trust. To stop running from our pain or chasing after solutions. When we allow ourselves to be still, the healing we seek arises effortlessly. This is the power of presence, the wisdom of the body, and the ultimate truth of healing: it doesn’t happen through effort but through surrender, through letting go, and through trusting in the process of life itself.

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